[ Other things that are amazing to consider: Ben Solo's abandonment issues aren't Nearly as acute when his family Actually Did come for him at his weakest point!!!!!!!!! For all the bitching he does about Han, deep deep down this is probably the happiest he's been in years.
All that is to say, that is the reason he doesn't immediately get Shouty and Angry and Fascist Dictatory. There is a pang of hurt, but-- he understands in his own way her reasoning. Why she wants to stay. To wait for her family. The need to belong somewhere-- to someone.
But he can't ignore the fact he's seen her past. ]
Why not?
[ An earnest question, because even if they'd accidentally kept picking up on each other's thoughts-- she'd never spelled it out clearly to any of them. ]
Other things to consider: Kylo Ren is still Elsa. Rey: "DONT BE THE MONSTER THEY THINK YOU ARE"
All that is to say, that is the reason he doesn't immediately get Shouty and Angry and Fascist Dictatory. There is a pang of hurt, but-- he understands in his own way her reasoning. Why she wants to stay. To wait for her family. The need to belong somewhere-- to someone.
But he can't ignore the fact he's seen her past. ]
Why not?
[ An earnest question, because even if they'd accidentally kept picking up on each other's thoughts-- she'd never spelled it out clearly to any of them. ]